Helpful Advice About Medium Readings

When getting a reading you should have at least an idea of what you hope to get out of it while still being
open to whatever comes through for you. Curiosity is usually not a good reason for spirit to come through.

If there is a loved one you want to hear from it's recommended that you invite them to attend the reading
(after all they are no different then us and they will appreciate being asked). You can talk to them and they
CAN hear you.

You should plan to keep notes during your reading. Should information not make sense immediately
you'll be able to verify it later. Some people have reported information coming true up to a year or two after
their reading so DO keep your notes.

Be open and know that not all readings will be the same. Some will offer vast amounts of validation while
others offer practical advice. The medium cannot tell the spirit world what they should talk about and
definitely cannot make them talk.

Loved ones in spirit only have a certain amount of energy to expend and will do their best to communicate
as much as possible within that time. They may even have a script of things they plan to relay and may
even refuse to stray from that script even if we ask them too. Others will be open to answering questions
on the spot... it all depends on them. Allow your loved ones coming through to choose their own
validation, don't force them to give you exactly what YOU want, again they are very much people too.

Always be honest with your reader and never attempt to test or fool them. Spirit people will shut a medium
down and refuse to speak if they know an intention isn't good.

If you're dissatisfied with your reading DO NOT wait for an hour to pass before letting your reader know.
Within the first 15 minutes of the reading you should feel if the reader is connecting or not, if not and the
reader hasn't stopped the reading then the reading should be stopped by you.

In some cases the energy simply isn't right for a reading to take place. This can be due to many factors...
you or the reader may be getting ill, you may be stressed from a long day, there may be an outside issue
in the environment or even a person near you who has a bad attitude toward psychic readings. There are
many reasons why psychic energy can become disrupted. It's best to stop a reading and reschedule in
those cases.

You should always let your reader know how many persons you plan to bring to your reading with you and
if those guests are related to you or not. Unrelated guests in attendance may result in reading multiple
families or your guest being read instead of you.

Try to have a good idea of your family tree on all sides of the family including your spouse's.

Know that any connection a spirit person has to you, even if you never knew that person personally when
they were alive, will afford them access to your reading and an opportunity to get a message to their loved
ones.
C.J. Sellers           Psychic Medium Healer